about the feeling center (3rd) II
Values and qualifications of the 3rd:
1) strength
2) stamina
3) courage
4) willpower
5) a sense of tact by feelings
6) the ability to use your gut feelings to guide you
7) individuality
So, when we have used and taken the most of the opportunities in the 3rd to develop our character, then, when the time is right, we can move to the 4th again and put it into practice on the Heart level, now, together with loving communication, practicing the art of belonging to the group and a family.
With the right training in the 3rd, we are able to use our senses and virtues to effectively approach any kind of group.
I felt that a large amount of our population was not yet ready for the 4th, but rather wanted and preferred to train themselves still in the 3rd. We are yet seeking ourselves out as individuals, and this process cannot be interrupted too much, because we yearn to find it out by ourselves (who we are, what would we like to do, what are we capable of).
We cannot take a "standard collective approach" and then press it to the population and say that this is how things should be. Then, how would the natural transition from 3rd to 4th look like?
We so clearly felt it together in Trepimäe, that it has to be a natural transition, that it pretty much has to happen by itself, as smoothly as possible. We felt (at least this is what I clearly felt) that we cannot force it to happen if it doesn't want to (the overcoming or overgoing or the transition).
So,
1) we cannot start with the assumption that something is "wrong" and we need to fix it
2) we cannot violently interrupt and say something like "from now on the order is like this"
These are the standard and necessary things to understand anything at all about our feeling bodies. Also, when our feeling centre is out of balance, we tend to choose others as targets and then start to idealize them (for example the phantom lover syndrome) and of course, cling to them.
This is a little bit unhealthy, because it would put and does put ourselves in the following position: "We are in a desperate need of help, thus powerless."
It would sound good and helpful in a sexual scene, but I wouldn't use it as the key in my relationship-building. To outcome and overcome this, we need to first solve these emotional issues or clingy habits within ourselves first. Another way to put it:
For a healthy and balanced 3rd we need to practice the ability to deal with our emotions.
I think that we are doing many things right by not pressing ourselves into fast communication, it does need to happen as naturally as possible, in my opinion (the way of the gentle heart).
How do I decide whether or not to communicate with someone? According to how I feel-and-think about the situation.
1) strength
2) stamina
3) courage
4) willpower
5) a sense of tact by feelings
6) the ability to use your gut feelings to guide you
7) individuality
So, when we have used and taken the most of the opportunities in the 3rd to develop our character, then, when the time is right, we can move to the 4th again and put it into practice on the Heart level, now, together with loving communication, practicing the art of belonging to the group and a family.
With the right training in the 3rd, we are able to use our senses and virtues to effectively approach any kind of group.
I felt that a large amount of our population was not yet ready for the 4th, but rather wanted and preferred to train themselves still in the 3rd. We are yet seeking ourselves out as individuals, and this process cannot be interrupted too much, because we yearn to find it out by ourselves (who we are, what would we like to do, what are we capable of).
We cannot take a "standard collective approach" and then press it to the population and say that this is how things should be. Then, how would the natural transition from 3rd to 4th look like?
We so clearly felt it together in Trepimäe, that it has to be a natural transition, that it pretty much has to happen by itself, as smoothly as possible. We felt (at least this is what I clearly felt) that we cannot force it to happen if it doesn't want to (the overcoming or overgoing or the transition).
So,
1) we cannot start with the assumption that something is "wrong" and we need to fix it
2) we cannot violently interrupt and say something like "from now on the order is like this"
These are the standard and necessary things to understand anything at all about our feeling bodies. Also, when our feeling centre is out of balance, we tend to choose others as targets and then start to idealize them (for example the phantom lover syndrome) and of course, cling to them.
This is a little bit unhealthy, because it would put and does put ourselves in the following position: "We are in a desperate need of help, thus powerless."
It would sound good and helpful in a sexual scene, but I wouldn't use it as the key in my relationship-building. To outcome and overcome this, we need to first solve these emotional issues or clingy habits within ourselves first. Another way to put it:
For a healthy and balanced 3rd we need to practice the ability to deal with our emotions.
I think that we are doing many things right by not pressing ourselves into fast communication, it does need to happen as naturally as possible, in my opinion (the way of the gentle heart).
How do I decide whether or not to communicate with someone? According to how I feel-and-think about the situation.
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