what makes me feel very safe

Ok what works for me to get rid of any fear, hidden shame or heart blockages is when:

I can see myself as a galactic being, with my true mission within this galaxy, solar system and planet.
I can feel that it is completely safe to express and teach on any stage on this planet, because I am a far-off visitor and it is ok to be an open teacher here.

So, the strengthening of the 11th chakra or galactic connections is the key for me, also for opening the heartful joy and true feelings of the feminine.