open homes

“Hello. There is a dream I would like to share. Life is short, we have to do it anyway. And there's no time to actually not follow the dreams. So it goes like this:

I had this beautiful creation project going on. It's like flowing through the heart space. And the thing is I want to create a network of open homes on this planet Earth. Which means that wherever you go in the cities or anywhere, there is always a place where you can sleep and eat. So the basic needs would be ok.

And on top of that, there would be like welcoming people at these open homes. So what this requires is a sense of trust. I find it sometimes difficult to let strangers stay at my place. And in Tartu I practiced and I let some of the weirdest-weirdest guys to sleep in my small room and just completely trust them.

I told them they can eat anywhere and I even switched apartments with one guy and he was there on his own and... I was just yea... not knowing him too much but said: “Hey, yea, you can stay, you can eat everything. Stay as long as you want.”

So I think from this space of trust we can start to create this open homes. And for me personally... I'm not sure how to do this, but this is what I would like to do. I think generally we're also moving back to our heart chakras and stuff like this. Then we are also naturally opening up more, we want to trust, we want to allow, we want to travel without worrying about our survival too much.

When I was few years younger, I had this dream in my mind: “When I'm travelling, there's always these open homes that I can stay at, so I have no worries, nothing.” But first it was a bit tough, I also had to make contacts. For me, the perfect way would be that you don't need technology, mobile phones, Facebook, nothing, you can walk on a street and you can pretty much search and find some place that is welcoming you.

I believe in the East somewhere or in the ancient cultures they have this natural hospitality, they are welcoming and everything. I heard there was a single woman travelling through Asia and it's not a problem.

But here in the Western culture we're somehow very closed and we have this big flat apartments in the city and for a strange traveller, it is pretty hard to actually find a place to stay at. So for a hungry person, I think we should be more welcoming.

How to create this space of trust? Wherever, what I have found, openly talking about the family relationships is the key. So for us, I am going to have a child with Minna and it's awesome and we're already making repairs here and...

And yes... I am most happy to have survived together with you guys. Let's see where it goes. I think this open homes project is important and we would solve the survival issue and we would also gently move towards our hearts. It would allow us to be more open. And more gender and more tender and more generous. Thanks.”